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This is a very strange book, and one I'm not certain I'm enjoying. On the one hand I love the writing style, which is full of beautiful language and is extremely verbose with lovely vocabulary usage. The sentence structure is poetic and enchanting, and very descriptive. However, the subject matter doesn't interest me at all. The book begins with a wonderfully gripping scene in which an elderly doctor attends the scene of his best friend's suicide. He's not a particularly likeable character, and is dispatched of fairly swiftly so the story can concentrate on the point of the book; his widow's romance with a man she rejected as a young woman. His undying devotion and adoration for her has simmered unrequited for half a century, and now he is able to once more declare himself. So as one of the most cynical and unromantic people I know this deeply disturbed and unhinged behaviour makes me balk. This isn't love, it's stalking! I just can't feel any sense of sympathy for characters that behave in such an impractical and disturbing way, and that he thinks it's ok to begin his pursuit of his quarry at her husband's funeral really is vile! I can understand why people are attracted to this book, the whole thing about fate and there being one person you instinctively believe you should be with has become idealised in our culture as a wonderfully romantic notion. Personally though I find the whole thing unsavoury and sad, rather than romantic. Pining away for someone you can't have is pointless and self-destructive, and even if you got them the idea of them would be so much better than the reality of their farting and dirty undies on the bathroom floor, so there's no possibility of your expectations living up to the fantasy. Unrequited love sucks, and should be fought against rather than painted as romantic. It's just not! Phew, now I've got
that off my chest, back to the book. So the story makes me cross, but
the writing is wonderful and so I've decided to relegate this book to my
'dip in and out' pile. There's no way I'm going to read this from cover
to cover as the story just doesn't grip me enough, but it is a nice
relaxing read when I'm in the mood for a few minutes gentle reading. So
that's what I'm going to do with it. Maybe the whole love story will
stop being so desperately irritating, but I fear the very worst. |
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